I spend most of my time on both, excal. I oversee things going on at both servers - There is not much I can do for graal2001 right now, short of hiring more people, and I'm attempting to work out something for that. Problem is, the standards are too high for most people, and those whose work's good enough already have jobs in places and aren't interested in another job. It was a blessing to have Scott and Shadowless come to help us out - I'm putting them in charge of their respective divisions (gfx and levels). I'm coordinating the projects - what more can you ask from me?
I've explained this several times before, and I'll explain it again - it's a temporary slump caused by a perceived lack of things to do. When kingdoms and the new quests/jobs are released, people will find enjoyment in the server once again. Keep in mind - the server's community-driven; when the community isn't there, it's not much fun, more people leave, repeat. So, when kingdoms come back, more people come, people find it fun and stay, community's larger, repeat, etc. It's some pretty basic principles.
