I can... for once... say that I don't mind.
I rarely get in a tangle with the mods or admins here, and it's not really THAT hard to follow the rules and still make decent posts... If you make an honest mistake and get punished for it, I'm sure if you contacted the person who punished you, you could reason with them politely. Not "OMG U #%)@#%$@# U DELETED MY POST AND GAVE ME A STRIKE CUZ I SPAMED ONE TIME!?!"
I might not like a lot of things about how these forums are run... but I like the fact that they don't allow people to insult other people or try and ruin them or embarass them or spit at them. I'd also prefer to see less spam and more posts that have a purpose and are more than 4 words long.
Pretty much 90% of my posts are lengthy and on-topic. I don't see what is so hard about it. Without some of these rules the forums would be not only chaotic but idiotic as well. All you'd see is threads about "so and so SUCKS!" and then a bunch of replies like "shut up!" "no u!" "lol" "spam!!!!" "ur stupid!"
It would be like AIM chats. If you've never had the pleasure of one, I recommend it. Then when you've sat in an AIM chat for about 10 minutes, log out and think about what it would be like if the forums were like that. Then be glad that we have rules here.
So sometimes (okay maybe more often than not) there are some overly strict mods/admins... But if you don't try to push them all the time then I don't see the problem. I do, however, think it would be better for mods to not delete posts but instead leave them there and punish the person publically so that other people know what not to do. Instead of deleting entire threads or tons of replies in a thread with the reason of "spam" or "don't post that" or "stay on topic" or anything stupid like that.