Maybe goodbye.

RegretZ · #1 01-30-2011, 04:35 AM

Beat up on me all you want for this. But I'm really considering quitting PC Graal.
Some of you may be able to take the endless insults, but I'm really tired of it. It seems everywhere I go, if I speak my opinion even once everyone else shuts me down and hates on me. Just because I'm relatively new to Graal they think I don't know anything, or because I'm young they think I'm too stupid to understand.
I really don't know if I belong in a community like this. Most of you guys probably don't give a ****, but I figured I'd say it anyways. Bye...maybe.

Tigairius · #2 01-30-2011, 04:37 AM

Most of the people who insult you are only looking for a reaction (like this). I personally don't agree with them, but quitting will do nothing to stop them from doing it to other people.

So, hopefully you realize that we're not all like that and some people legitimately care about the game. The forums is just a negative community and it has been for a long time. I would suggest meeting with people in-game because they're generally friendlier. Sad truth- wish I could do something to fix it but it's out of my hands.

RegretZ · #3 01-30-2011, 04:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Tigairius

Most of the people who insult you are only looking for a reaction (like this). I personally don't agree with them, but quitting will do nothing to stop them from doing it to other people.

What else am I supposed to do? Sit there and let them hurt me more, then have some sudden outburst, look like an idiot, and give them more reason to hurt me?

SlikRick · #4 01-30-2011, 04:44 AM

If you let them get to you they win. Just ignore them because they do it just to get at people, like they have to you.

Tigairius · #5 01-30-2011, 04:45 AM

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Originally Posted by RegretZ

What else am I supposed to do? Sit there and let them hurt me more, then have some sudden outburst, look like an idiot, and give them more reason to hurt me?

If someone is harassing you, click the report post button. Usually Darlene is very understanding of these kinds of things and she'll do whatever she can to help you.

Gothika · #6 01-30-2011, 04:46 AM

Sticks and stones.

RegretZ · #7 01-30-2011, 04:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Tigairius

If someone is harassing you, click the report post button. Usually Darlene is very understanding of these kinds of things and she'll do whatever she can to help you.

It's not the forums, it's on Graal PC. Actually it was just a few minutes ago on Maloria. Ironically, the one insulting me was the only player relations staff...

Fulg0reSama · #8 01-30-2011, 04:47 AM

I have to agree with Gothika and SlikRick big time.

People are *******s. You have to roll with the punches and shrug em off.
Players on Graal are mostly immature 15-25 year old people who usually have the intelligence of a 4chan regular. You need to realize their opinions and insults don't mean a thing. Words are just words.

Tigairius · #9 01-30-2011, 04:48 AM

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Originally Posted by RegretZ

It's not the forums, it's on Graal PC. Actually it was just a few minutes ago on Maloria. Ironically, the one insulting me was the only player relations staff...

I am 100% positive that Ziro and Mallard would not tolerate any kind of behavior like that from one of their staff members. I would suggest reporting it to one of them next time you see them online. Make sure you include some form of proof of the said harassment as well.

RegretZ · #10 01-30-2011, 04:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Tigairius

I am 100% positive that Ziro or Mallard would not tolerate any kind of behavior like that from one of their staff members. I would suggest reporting it to one of them next time you see them online. Make sure you include some form of proof of the said harassment as well.

I don't think Ziro would listen to me, but ok.

Fulg0reSama · #11 01-30-2011, 04:49 AM

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I don't think Ziro would listen to me, but ok.

Personally he has to, if he doesn't then honestly he's failing you as a manager and as a provider of your entertainment and enjoyment.

Tigairius · #12 01-30-2011, 04:51 AM

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Originally Posted by RegretZ

I don't think Ziro would listen to me, but ok.

I do, he's the manager of the server after all.

RegretZ · #13 01-30-2011, 04:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Fulg0reSama

Personally he has to, if he doesn't then honestly he's failing you as a manager and as a provider of your entertainment and enjoyment.

Well, I find it kind of ironic I was the one who suggested it in the first place and he bluntly refused, then I asked mallard to talk to him about it and suddenly now they have a pr.

Crono · #14 01-30-2011, 04:53 AM

ive never trolled/flamed you before and have always been friendly but seriously, qq

RegretZ · #15 01-30-2011, 04:54 AM

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ive never trolled/flamed you before and have always been friendly but seriously, qq

Ctrl + T!!!!!!!

Fulg0reSama · #16 01-30-2011, 04:54 AM

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ive never trolled/flamed you before and have always been friendly but seriously, qq

You called? no really just kidding.

We hope you don't leave

Darlene159 · #17 01-30-2011, 04:54 AM

There are a lot of people who live to insult others, but there are also people who are decent and friendly. Tig is right, the ones who insult you are looking to get a rise out of you, and it is best to just ignore them, and report them.
If you are speaking of the forums, there are helpful and friendly people here, but not many unfortunately. All you can do is report them, and I will do my best....

Gothika · #18 01-30-2011, 05:00 AM

Making this thread is probably going to fuel the fire a bit, but seriously, just ignore them. Hell block them, put them on you're ignore list if they get to you that much.

RegretZ · #19 01-30-2011, 05:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Gothika

Making this thread is probably going to fuel the fire a bit, but seriously, just ignore them. Hell block them, put them on you're ignore list if they get to you that much.

Well it can't fuel the fire I'm talking about because the people involved don't use the forums, thank god for that.

fowlplay4 · #20 01-30-2011, 05:02 AM

Goodbye maybe? This is not a thread to be indecisive about.

Truthfully if you got flamed or whatever it was probably for posting some generic/robot/anime style reply.

RegretZ · #21 01-30-2011, 05:04 AM

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Goodbye maybe? This is not a thread to be indecisive about.

Your right. I should have put this in the, "I'm not sure what to do yet" part of the forums.

Elizabeth · #22 01-30-2011, 05:15 AM

RegretZ · #23 01-30-2011, 05:26 AM

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I'm stuck up and probably didn't even read this post because it was too long and I have no attention span

Fixed.

salesman · #24 01-30-2011, 05:28 AM

see ya later alligator

RegretZ · #25 01-30-2011, 05:31 AM

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see ya later alligator

Does the word, "Maybe" not mean anything anymore? Not trying to be rude, although this thread was a bit misguided, it was more of a reaching out for help kinda thing.

MattKan · #26 01-30-2011, 05:45 AM

Bye, Regret! Have fun away from Graal!

Cosss · #27 01-30-2011, 05:51 AM

good riddance I don't like vampires (only ventrue)

Elizabeth · #28 01-30-2011, 05:58 AM

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Fixed.

are u mad

Demisis_P2P · #29 01-30-2011, 06:01 AM

Cya later man.

Stephen · #30 01-30-2011, 06:09 AM

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Fixed.

Don't let the door hit you.

Demisis_P2P · #31 01-30-2011, 06:18 AM

Hey guys lets all make threads to be attention seekers and complain constantly about how we don't fit into the community instead of just trying to be less annoying and hope that people eventually accept us.

This thread just made me dislike you even more, and I'm sure a bunch of other people feel the same way.

Eat some cement and harden up.

MrOmega · #32 01-30-2011, 06:49 AM

Oh come on guys, give the kid a break. This is suppose to be a formal and kind place for Graal players to get help and speak their mind, freely, regardless. Of the idiocracy of some posts, you don't need to make a harassing comments, in-game or here. Wasn't there global GPs anyways to take care of this stuff at one time? Yeah, speaking your mind sometimes can somewhat impose on others, but if you do it explicitly to talk down or harass other shut up and grow up.

Go ahead and harass me but someone has to stand up to the bullies. I'll be one of the first to take a stand.

Fulg0reSama · #33 01-30-2011, 06:55 AM

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Oh come on guys, give the kid a break. This is suppose to be a formal and kind place for Graal players to get help and speak their mind, freely, regardless. Of the idiocracy of some posts, you don't need to make a harassing comments, in-game or here. Wasn't there global GPs anyways to take care of this stuff at one time? Yeah, speaking your mind sometimes can somewhat impose on others, but if you do it explicitly to talk down or harass other shut up and grow up.

Go ahead and harass me but someone has to stand up to the bullies. I'll be one of the first to take a stand.

+rep when I get a chance.

DemonSpawnn · #34 01-30-2011, 07:44 AM

You won't. Just ignore trolls other-wise you just make it worse.

cbk1994 · #35 01-30-2011, 07:47 AM

Welcome to the internet...

MrOmega · #36 01-30-2011, 08:12 AM

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Welcome to the internet...

Why do ya gotta say that? You have posted some really brilliant stuff, stuff I've even learned from. "Welcome to the internet..." Forget that, we need to create our own pocket of the internet, I know candy canes and lollipops isn't going to happen or even ideal. Try showing so sympathy at least and be or just act more kind hearted towards others already, instead of leaving some negative (intentional or not) comment.

Also, whoever left the neg rep saying "lighten up", no I shall not, I understand this may just be a game forum and trivial altogether, but bullying and harassing people is wrong, and I will not idle by and watch people attack others. I'm standing up for what I believe in and will not faulter. Your negative words shall bring you nothing but foetor and decay upon yourself.

MattKan · #37 01-30-2011, 08:13 AM

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Originally Posted by MrOmega

Why do ya gotta say that? You have posted some really brilliant stuff, stuff I've even learned from. "Welcome to the internet..." Forget that, we need to create our own pocket of the internet, I know candy canes and lollipops isn't going to happen or even ideal. Try showing so sympathy at least and be or just act more kind hearted towards others already, instead of leaving some negative (intentional or not) comment.

Some people just hate idiots like regret, but I guess we should all just shut up about it and keep our hateful thoughts private and behind Regret's back?

alskdjfhg · #38 01-30-2011, 08:19 AM

I didn't mind you until now. This thread is officially why I hate you!

MrOmega · #39 01-30-2011, 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by MattKan

Some people just hate idiots like regret, but I guess we should all just shut up about it and keep our hateful thoughts private and behind Regret's back?

Somewhat correct, in your perspective you may think he is an idiot, I won't disrespect your view but, just wording it properly so you don't come off as attacking or offensive.

MattKan · #40 01-30-2011, 08:30 AM

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Somewhat correct, in your perspective you may think he is an idiot, I won't disrespect your view but, just wording it properly so you don't come off as attacking or offensive.

He has openly been a jerk, I mean mean, to me in the past, and I am expected to be nice to him in return...ingenious