true question

[Tyhm]

Originally Posted by Darlene159

I am already forum admin, but I still have to get most things approved by Unixmad. I can't just go changing things out of respect for his forums.

I disagree - while I believe you're as much the Forum Admin as anyone, if you were truly the Administrator of the Forum, it would be your domain, your fief to rule as you see fit. Since you can't, you aren't, and that's wrong. I've been there, I know.
The way it is, you have to enforce rules whether you agree with them or not, and not even you are allowed to grant exceptions to these rules. You should either be granted the power to act in Unixmad's absence or we should get someone who can.