well, i thought really hard and i decided the only thing that could be screwing me up other thatn the server was zonealrm which i had uninstalled earlier. If you've ever used zonealarm you know when you uninstall it it screws up your internet. Well, it wasn't zonealarm stopping me from connecting, but something was wrong with the traceroute, so here's the real one...
I traced graal2001 cause it was easier to remember, but at one time i traced europa with the same resutls, tell me to do it again if you need it for some reason, also my ip isn't logged because i'm using a cgi proxy so, i'll give it to you 65.29.28.62, my static changes every 5 months or so, last time i posted it was 65.29.28.10
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WINDOWS>tracert
www.graal2001.com
Tracing route to graal2001.com [195.219.57.15]
over a maximum of 30 hops:
1 9 ms 8 ms 9 ms 10.39.64.1
2 12 ms 11 ms 12 ms 24.26.161.123
3 12 ms 12 ms 13 ms mplsmn01-rtr1-pos-2-0.mn.rr.com [24.26.161.1]
4 24 ms 14 ms 14 ms acr2-sonet2-1-0-0.minneapolis.cw.net [208.174.1.
129]
5 42 ms 43 ms 43 ms agr3-loopback.washington.cw.net [206.24.226.103]
6 41 ms 47 ms 42 ms dcr2-so-6-2-0.washington.cw.net [206.24.238.185]
7 119 ms 120 ms 122 ms bcr2.thamesside.cw.net [166.63.210.62]
8 118 ms 118 ms 118 ms zcr1-so-1-0-0.londonlnt.cw.net [166.63.209.198]
9 122 ms 121 ms 119 ms zpr1-ge-1-3-0.londonlnt.cw.net [166.63.222.152]
10 120 ms 140 ms 121 ms cable-and-wireless-peering.londonlnt.cw.net [195
.10.35.94]
11 131 ms 135 ms 130 ms if-4-0.core2.london.teleglobe.net [195.219.96.70
]
12 130 ms 131 ms 130 ms if-1-0.core2.london2.teleglobe.net [195.219.96.1
22]
13 130 ms 131 ms 131 ms if-6-0.core2.paris2.teleglobe.net [195.219.15.23
7]
14 129 ms 130 ms 131 ms vlan3.msfc1.paris2.teleglobe.net [195.219.15.170
]
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