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Originally Posted by anubis_wing
Well, I just recently got ET Chief and I'd LOVE to stay around, but since I have less rights then Dante then I see absolutely NO reason to stay around if a subordinate has more power then the actual boss. So you know, whatever.
Also, if you think this is because I want more rights, well it's not, it's the fact that KDS is still considered an ET and has a lot more rights then me. Also, my RC was removed as well and Dante kept his.
I also took the liberty of removing myself.
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In my years of wisdom holding hundreds of different staff positions I have learned many many things. I have learned that it's not worth getting worked up over. I have learned that you look like a stronger person if you don't get upset, even if your boss/manager plays favorites. I will say that I have never, ever liked Daniel. I can't understand what he said in his application to get him his job, but he has yet to show me that he should really be where he is... and this is just another reason why. Dan and I go back a little ways and we let something get the best of both of us, causing a clash of personalities. I have matured since then, and I am sure he has as well.
Anubis, the point is... you can get upset that your friend is better liked by Daniel, but you had seniority. I think I have seen first hand that seniority means more to Stefan and unixmad than a good job does.
Sometimes part of doing a good job as the chief of a staff position is being the more mature, stronger person in some situations and handling them to the best of your ability. Look inside of yourself, are you handling this to the best of your ability? I think when it all comes down to it, you are jealous, and it is
perfectly understandable. I would be a bit jealous too if I were you, especially if I was working there longer. There are some things that aren't in your control, and I think that bothers you, but it's O.K. I hope you learn from this situation, and I hope you are able to handle newer situations with greater maturity and vitality! I don't really know you, but good luck, Anubis, and I am sure the Zone community will miss your events !