Sorry, I've talked to Jay about this before your post.
He said he does not like you, and that you start "crap" with him.
And that you are not allowed on the server.
But it didn't seem like you were very sportsmanlike about it either lol..
I would have unbanned you, but I don't feel I have any say against the staff above me.
I do agree you should not be banned or jailed for being hated unless you actually do something on the server that goes against the rules..