[Tyhm]

It's not a defect, it's just an attribute. Some people have six toes. That's not a defect either. The one thing I don't have a lot of patience for, though, is the people who abuse it. Guys who pretend they're *** to shock their parents, or on stage to shock parents everywhere...they bring the legitimate homosexuals down. I'm still cheezed at the Buffy people: Willow's straight, picks up withcraft, she breaks up with her boyfriend, oookay now she's into girls! Nope, didn't find out, she just changed.
I mean, the lesbians at my old high school say you're born that way or you aren't, all that ever changes is how much you accept it. I figure that's about right. In any case, I figure they're apt to know more about it than I ever will!