I suggest you AIM Robin, he is much nicer on AIM (we are friends now
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I think this is because no one wears pants when browsing the forums, so when you're on AIM (and wearing pants) naturally you are more comfortable talking to people?
Robin is nice though, I suggest you AIM him and deal with your problems. He helped me jailbreak my iPhone (which I could have done; he more or less convinced me to)