[Darlene159]

Most people who commit suicide are drowning in their own problems. To say that they do not think of anyone else, might be very incorrect. It is very possible that they might think that everyone would be better off without them, even though that may not be true..
It is also very possible that they are so wrapped up in whatever it is that has brought them to the point of suicide, to even think of anything/anyone else (although not on purpose).
Unless you can get into someones mind at the exact point that they are taking their life, then there is no way that you can know what that person is feeling, you can only guess. Only he has walked in his shoes, and only he knows exactly what took him to that point.
I think it is unfair for anyone to call him a coward or whatever, without complete understanding of what was going on in his head.

This thread is to say good-bye, not to debate on the right or wrong of what he did.
I would expect the thread to be one of respect for him and his family, and not a fued.