[Admins]

Each kingdoms has staff who have access to the Kingdoms Debug server and see me almost each day, so you could contact the king/queen of your Kingdom to get information about staff. They even wear tags now.
It is not disallowed to pick up items that are dropped by other people, also when you disconnect while trading and don't come back to take the items from the trade table then they are not restored. We are currently working on finishing the new mudlib (library for item and stats management) to fix the problem of randomly disappearing/reset items at login, and also fix the trade tables to put the items back into the account of the owner when he/she logouts. Currently we don't restore accounts because that would take more time than actually fixing those problems, but we will start restoring again once those problems are fixed, in a few weeks.