lyndzey?
 

is she on vacation or someting? ive been trying to contact her, but to no avail. any information would be helpful.

She gets on AIM frequently

She still needs to have my babies. :(

<3

Koni.....that was just wrong guy >_>

It's procreation in the name of comunity 0.o

omg u cheeeting on angel!!!111

It's not cheating if it's never going to happen. :)

hmmm
 

yea, ive been wondering the same, can someone enilghten us to the whereabouts of lyndzey?

Talked to her on Kingdoms the other day. She is still around. She has been busy with school. School comes first over this game. She still checks her email, so keep sending requests there.

And the sketch girl o.o

And I believe Emily Tannare as well (if I recall his past posts correctly), as well as Hurumi, as well as presumably several other people Konidias has said such things about. . . . .

And my actual girlfriend. :eek:

I hope you know I'm joking guys. :p

Of course; it's just in very poor taste.

Gah, yes jokes like this can be funny but this one ain't :(
It's like a hoe...

Can I be his pimp?

That's a matter of opinion, and I really don't value yours. :)

Now, now children, play nice. Don't make me get out the garden hose again.

Eh, he's the one that likes to pick apart my threads and misinterprate everything, while trying to act like my father.

WHAT DID I JUST SAY?! *sprays you*

Misinterpreting it? Your statement was a joke made in poor taste. You assume that girls enjoy that kinda stuff. The simple fact is that while some girls may feel 'special' because the konidias made such a joke involving them (haha), others might simply take offense and not like people talking about having babies with them. When this is the case, it becomes sexual harrassment, which (in case you didn't get the memo) is bad.

And you complain about me criticizing you, when you've done so to me in the past? Quite hypocritical, Koni, quite hypocritical. ^_^

Re: lyndzey?
 

I have actually been getting back a lot of emails saying the email does not exist. I don't know if people are having ISP problems or if something is wrong with my email service.

Plus I have been studying for finals a lot lately. Now that I go to a real college, I have to do some work :[

I'm forced to agree with Lance. Would you still consider it tasteful and amusing if somebody else were persisting in implying that every female Graal player wants to sleep with him?

It wouldn't bother me at all, as it is none of my business. If the female Graal players play a part in the joke then I see no reason for it to be distasteful. I'm not even meaning it in the way you're portraying it in your mind.

I'm not trying to say I'm some stud and that girls need to really sleep with me. Do you see my avatar? Do you see what the guy has in the avatar? It's a baby. It's a joke about making babies on Oasis. I've joked with Angel about it, and Huru, and even other guys, so it's not like I'm doing it as a sexist thing... and none of them care at all. They even tend to joke about it when I'm not even doing it.

If you don't like the joke, that is your personal opinion. I for one, would not be getting up in other people's business, and making bold assumptions about what these inside jokes translate to. It's foolish and arrogant.

If you think I'm serious and that I am trying to sexually harass someone, you really need to loosen up.

I didn't ask if it would bother you. Stop evading the question.

How does the 'joke' start? How do you ascertain whether or not the person is willing to be demeaned? Do you make the joke and then wait to see if they complain, or ask them beforehand if it's okay to make crude sexual references towards them? Should any person ever be put into either situation?

Y'know what else he has? It's a wink. Not a "hey, look at this phat baby" wink (because those don't exist), a "check it out, I banged a chick and spread my seed" wink. I actually like the avatar, as a reference to Oasis. But I didn't realise that it was a symbol of your faux sexual conquests.

Which brings me to the other point I wanted to raise. When you make this highly-dubious joke with a single person, that's bad taste. When you do it with everyone you meet, and in public? That's an obsession.

Great, I'm glad they're not offended by it (or at least not enough to mention it). But I'm more concerned about those who don't like to be thought of in such a way, or who're offended by the attitude to females that you're broadcasting.

Firstly, it's not a wild assumption. It's a calculated judgement.
Secondly, your intentions in the matter aren't particularly relevant. You might not think it's offensive, and you may not mean it in a sexual manner (at least, not consciously), but you're not the target of this stuff.

Well, there's a bulletproof argument :rolleyes:

I was going to say something about this when Koni first posted about having babies with Lyndzey.
I agree with you on this one, I mean obviously when you ask someone to have your babies, it IS a sexual remark....
And the avatar, that says "making babies" with a wink, is quite clear.
It is very bad taste Koni, whether you think so or not....People are capable of reading between the lines :\
Not to mention that most of the people who play Graal are minors who dont need to be seeing Koni's sexual inuindo's (sp)
Think about it, Koni

thanks
 

thank you lyndzey, some admin please close this topic, i dont want this becoming a flame topic about sexual harassment.

Okay, the first person that I make the joke towards that tells me to stop, I will. It's not like I'm harassing anyone about it.

The joke isn't an obsession, it's the same type of thing as the "omg kthnxdie" stuff. People get in the habit of doing it and it just becomes a common thing. I think it's rather sexist of you to single out women like they all think what I'm doing is wrong. People make jokes with other people all the time, not everyone is going to like the joke, including the person that the joke is about.

If it was so out of line I wouldn't have posted it. I didn't find anything wrong with it, and nobody has said anything about it until Tseng opened his big mouth.

You guys have a habit of totally blowing my threads out of proportion, and getting the wrong idea about a post. Dare I bring up the thread Stefan made in the playerworld forum about the profanity filter he made? I'm sick and tired of having my posts picked apart by you two, when you don't even understand the meaning behind the post. You just storm in and make assumptions and then when I explain myself, you just try to act as if your accusations were noble or something.

Again, you decipher things the way you want to. The avatar is winking because it's showing that babies will be available on Oasis. It wasn't my intention to have it mean anything else. Until the targeted individual points out that they do not like the joke I made towards them, and that it was distasteful, then please shut up. Because I don't really see the point in you even mentioning it if it's not offending anyone but yourself, and you're sitting here saying you're concerned about these people that aren't saying anything.

Please don't act as if you're the voice of justice, and that these people are just too afraid to come forward, or that I'm somehow cyber-molesting these people, or that they are taking offense to it. If they were, they would say something.

I don't see how you can say my intention had nothing to do with it. You're the one always throwing "context" in my face. This has nothing to do with my gender. If I was female, I'd make the same joke. I've had girls say I'm going to have their baby. Should I be offended? It's a joke. Now I'll make another old but seemingly popular joke: Did you miss the clue bus?

(OH HEAVEN FORBID SOMEONE ISN'T INTELLIGENT AND THEY TAKE OFFENSE TO THAT) :rolleyes:

No, because posting your sick 'jokes' on public message boards is... wait, no, that is harrassment.

That's an item of vocabulary, a way of saying something that they'd otherwise say anyway. It's not the same thing as an obsession with impregnating everybody.

At no point did I argue that all women would be offended.

Especially if that joke is tasteless and offensive. By your logic, any form of harrassment could be dismissed as 'just a joke'. A line has to be drawn and, by most standards, treating females like baby-making sexual objects crosses that line.

Ah, because you can never do anything wrong?

Except for Chris. And, what, everybody else's thoughts and actions are mere mirrors of Tseng's? You know I'm not like that, and neither is Moon Goddess.

Your threads...?

Whether or not I'm properly interpreting your reason for making the crude implications that you do, they're still puerile and tasteless.

Wait. In the profanity filter thread, I merely pointed out that the hardcoded filter is superior to anything that could be coded in GScript, and that I didn't understand why you wouldn't use it. I was essentially asking why you'd choose to stay with a scripted version, I wasn't attacking you in any way.

And you say that I misinterpret posts?

Tsch. I remember you 'storming into' a thread accusing me of corruption because I deleted some spam. And then when I explained myself, you just tried to act as if your accusations were noble or something :rolleyes:

You still haven't justified your actions here. The number of objections alone should show that the 'joke' isn't likely to be universally well-accepted.

That would be one of the more obscure meanings of a wink, then?

Mmm, no. People shouldn't have to tell you not to make references to sleeping with them. Your amusement does not justify putting them in that position.

Myself and the four other people that have directly criticised your humor.

If they were too afraid to come forward, they would say something? Nice logic.

Again: People don't always feel comfortable complaining about such things. Sometimes it's easier to go with the flow, especially if they're

No. I'm the one that hasn't mentioned context even once in this entire thread, and you're the one that wouldn't understand even if I did. The context isn't the issue here, and neither are your intentions. You don't mean to offend them? Fine. But that doesn't really matter, because the key issue here is that your 'jokes' are demeaning and tasteless, regardless of whether or not you intend them to be.

You're an idiot. What, you're offended? But it's a joke!

Obvious Counter-Point 2: The rules are different for males and females. Generally speaking, males want to bang everything they see, while females don't want to be banged by everything they see.

It's rather more a matter of situation - you say this with friends, not post it on the internet for everyone to read :\ , and misinterprete or become offensed.

I read about halfway through. I'm done. Whatever. This is going nowhere. I'm not going to waste a second more time on this thread. Think what you want. *shrugs*

Well, I guess this means...

Kai > Koni :D

New idea: Other than the offense towards the girl herself, what about the offense to her boyfriend? Would you like it if other guys were hitting on your girlfriend, saying she should have their babies, etc?

..Do you really need to start an arguement on every opportunity you get?

Konidias was kidding around when he said that, obviously.

You've completely blown this out of proportion just so you could argue and piss one more person off.

You didn't read the other posts in the thread did you? Because what you've said has already been countered. :rolleyes:

Obviously not, and I clearly don't.

Read thread -> Think -> Post. Your foolish point was used by Koni and flaws in it were already pointed out by Kaimetsu.

And we all know that the meaning of my existence is merely to argue and piss people off - especially when it's posting about behavior which could be rather easily construed as sexual harrassment, which happens to be illegal, both in real life and on Graal.

In times like this, I wish I had saved some "OWNED!" pictures. :(

Mmm, best be careful. Knowing his type, he would (and very well still may) accuse you of sucking up.

hmmm. Who are you talking about? :confused: Anyways (to the person who Lance was aiming it at), I have no need or any reasons to suck up, as I only use the forums and I really don't care if Lance owns me verbally so... *shrugs*

-_-

I hate you all, i hate this ****ing forums, i hope the forum crashes and never gets back because IT SUCKS!

All i see here is arguments and bull****ing****....

KONIDIAS WAS JOKING FOR CHRIST SAKE... GROW UP... Jesus.. Kaimetsu you must be the human from future, the one without feelings, the one which was created by robots.... grr -_-



Koni, wanna have my babies?

Yay, looks like I'm the first to answer your post. *grins* Congratulations on hating us all, what would you like; a glass of milk or a Micky Mouse badge?

*sigh* Once again, the issue of Konidias 'joking' has already been countered by both Kaimetsu and Tseng. By this, I assume that you too, did not read all of the threads in this topic. We're not the ones that need to grow up. If this is a 'habit' of Konidias, I suggest he's the one that grows up.

:rolleyes: Unless either you or Konidias are female (which I seriously doubt), it's not possible. Stop trying to stir up the situation anymore than it has to be.