if you give bad rep to someone they can know who gave to them?(if you dont write a messege)

No they don't but, you if you're going to say "they suck" or something you might as well have the balls to leave your name.

Hold on... I posted that mods give 10 points, what the hell happened to my post?

i know, something wrong with the forums, i posted in a thread yesterday and my post didnt show

My post was there though. Because I posted the User CP right after it... wtf...

No, but moderators can see (one gave me bad reputation for what they thought was me "giving reputation where not needed").

Heh
You're not supposed to know that.
Ever wonder why mine is red?

Abuse ^

Eh, could you and Sam negative rep me a few times. I want at least -50.

From my latest negative rep, not a private message:
"When will you understand that using rights we have is not abusing? -Darlene"

They're using their given powers to their advantage. That's abusing.

We should be able to see who gives us reputations if its not abuse.

Exactly

I vaguely remember these forums once having a rep system. confim/deny?

It's not abuse if we are using the right which it was intended, which we do. I would do it more often if it werent so high. I have asked several times that it be lowered because I dont believe it to be fair. unixmad said in the very beginning what we had, and you better be nice, lol
Look it up. I believe he called it the forums driving license.

I have a few negrep from them as well, she's actually the one who dropped me into the red.
No, normally rep systems work. It's just bad here because the users have very few powers, and the mods can counteract at least 5 people's repping.
You repped someone for getting a rep you didn't think they deserved, countering someone else's (and damaging their rep, since yours is so much better). That's not right.
The president can sign a bill that would improve the company he has stocks in. It's not illegal, but does that make it right?

I'm all for following the rules this time around, but don't make it so hard by abusing your abilities. Staff on forums can warp people around, doesn't mean they should do it every chance they get. :\

Yes, the normal rep system works but like you said. Look at this place.